I have extra time for myself while the kids are visiting family for a week. The thing about motherhood is that there’s literally always something to do. My to-do list is always full. There’s something that randomly needs to be repaired. I love writing; it’s literally like therapy for me. However, I have future writing topics that bounce in my head throughout the day. I had it all set for my kid-free break to tackle everything needed here at home, along with tapping into my creative genius full throttle. I sat down on the couch, reflecting on the quietness of the house. The curtains were closed, making the living room extra cozy, and the pillows were finally where they were supposed to be, making the living room look plush, perfect for a nap. I decided, for a moment, to release the need to make myself busy just to say I was doing something. I listened to my tired mind and felt the weight of a body working overtime. I decided that, as a mom, I would rest, regroup, recuperate, and restore myself for my rare time alone, without proving anything to myself or anyone else.
Mind, Body, & Spirit
One thing I’ve learned is that my body whispers wisdom when I need to slow down and rebalance. My body reminds me to calm my thoughts and soothe my worries, stressors, and pressures. My soul yearns for nourishment, crying out for comforting words to uplift my spirit. As a working single parent, I’ve discovered that family life can be a beautiful challenge, especially during uncertain times. The school year brings its own set of unpredictability, but as a teacher and a parent, I’m learning to adapt and grow. My special needs daughter has taught me the importance of resilience and flexibility, even in the face of meltdowns and disrupted routines. I’m committed to creating a nurturing environment for my children, filled with learning, laughter, and love. Although my divorce was finalized during the pandemic, I’ve come to realize that every ending marks a new beginning. As an educator and virtual speaker, I’ve been blessed with opportunities to connect with others and share my passion. I’ve made it a priority to stay updated and current, always seeking ways to improve and grow. When my body started sending me signals of fatigue, menstrual irregularity, numbness, and lack of concentration, I listened and made self-care a non-negotiable part of my journey.
Rest Ma
We glorify busyness more in society. Mom influencers on social media know the responsibility of keeping various content posted daily while staying up-to-date with the latest trends. There is always something to clean, fold, and prepare at home. Many of us as moms don’t give ourselves permission to rest unless it’s a holiday like Mother’s Day, sickness, or injury. The truth is we don’t need permission from anyone to rest. We should schedule resting in our day like we schedule everything on our to-do lists. I decided, after an initial planned quick nap that lasted a full deep day of sleep, to take the opportunity to add rest to my schedule. It’s not too lazy to rest. Self-care has nothing to do with aesthetics. Resting is all about replenishing your spirit by taking care of yourself so that we as moms can take care of those who depend on us the most. Resting isn’t just about sleeping; it’s also about doing things that put a smile on your face and doing things you enjoy. I’ve enjoyed alone time, had personal Netflix and chills nights, shared time with dear loved ones, worked out at the gym, and took quiet strolls on the lake. I’m resting, and I pray you learn to rest too, Mom.
Purpose Filled Mommy with Minimarie 